About this blog
I am creating this blog on a whim, because I am starting to be more and more paranoiac about leaving notes, letters and thoughts on my office computer. I would be so mortified if one day upon showing up at the office, I was given the boot and forced to leave my laptop behind.
Really, the force driving me to start this blog, is the same that has seen me crawling the Web late at night these past few weeks, in search for answers about my newfound condition. I have just realized that I am a submissive man, married to a terrific Lady who, I believe, is a dominant. My problem is that... she does not really know it. Sure, she'll admit that she is bossy and controlling, even bitchy at times. We both know she wears the pants in the house. However, there is much more to being a Domme than just having a tendency to dominate most power exchanges. Conversely, having submissive tendencies does not make me a sub. I have a long way to go too.
So there it is. The aim of this blog is to document my efforts to turn my traditional, vanilla relationship into a D/s one. I have great materials at hand: a wonderful, assertive wife, whose dominance is just waiting to be unleashed; a kinky, submissive mind of my own; a strong relationship. Unfortunately, there are also many obstacles in the way. The biggest one right now is sex, or rather the lack of. Our sex life is in limbo while my wife undergoes therapy. She is in a phase where she has to deal with the problem on her own. I respect that, and she has my full support. As a result, erotic D/s is probably out of the question for the moment. Maybe it will turn out to be a blessing, who knows. Alternatively, it's possible that D/s will prove to be the solution to our sexual difficulties (I have my own issues too).
We’ll see how things turn out, but right now, I am very happy and excited about starting this journey.
Really, the force driving me to start this blog, is the same that has seen me crawling the Web late at night these past few weeks, in search for answers about my newfound condition. I have just realized that I am a submissive man, married to a terrific Lady who, I believe, is a dominant. My problem is that... she does not really know it. Sure, she'll admit that she is bossy and controlling, even bitchy at times. We both know she wears the pants in the house. However, there is much more to being a Domme than just having a tendency to dominate most power exchanges. Conversely, having submissive tendencies does not make me a sub. I have a long way to go too.
So there it is. The aim of this blog is to document my efforts to turn my traditional, vanilla relationship into a D/s one. I have great materials at hand: a wonderful, assertive wife, whose dominance is just waiting to be unleashed; a kinky, submissive mind of my own; a strong relationship. Unfortunately, there are also many obstacles in the way. The biggest one right now is sex, or rather the lack of. Our sex life is in limbo while my wife undergoes therapy. She is in a phase where she has to deal with the problem on her own. I respect that, and she has my full support. As a result, erotic D/s is probably out of the question for the moment. Maybe it will turn out to be a blessing, who knows. Alternatively, it's possible that D/s will prove to be the solution to our sexual difficulties (I have my own issues too).
We’ll see how things turn out, but right now, I am very happy and excited about starting this journey.
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